Until Seasons came out I never had a sim refuse a proposal. Now it happens 6/10 times. I don't mind, really. It adds more drama but sometimes can really throw a spanner in my plans.
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I don't know if it's a setting, but if it was the mod causing this, it would happen with every couple not just one. Unless you have flagged one or the sims for never marry, but it shouldn't affect player directed proposal.
Its not a MOD defect as I dont have MODS in my game and it has been happening to me.
It happened to me once. But the problem was my sim had 5 more girlfriends. I had to break up with each one of them to finally marry to the sim I want.
Didn’t the OP say that the female sim flirts with lots of people. Maybe if she has multiple romantic interests she needs to ask each of them to only be friends before she will accept a marriage proposal from the OP’s sim?
I doubt is that, that gives problems with marriage as it says you can't marry a sim in your employ. My sim had 3 girlfriends when he proposed and it was accepted.
Version 4.something of Mccc was causing this problem as I tested it both with and without the mod more than once. The fact is, it was causing this with all and every couples for no reason. This doesn't say that something changed in the proposal behaviour, as they get turned down way more than before, without mods too. It was hard to get refused before even from non-committal sims.
There may very well be a bug that came with one of the recent patches (Seasons) - I'm not entirely sure about this, but pretty sure; and it's causing outside proposals to be rejected more often than not. There are Simmers who still have outside proposals accepted so if it is a bug it's not a consistent one, but me and friends of mine have also experienced an insane increase in proposal rejections even for Sims who were in good moods, had highest relationships, no Noncommittal-like traits, and had amorous conversations. There seems to be a connection between proposals being rejected and them being outside; inside proposals still do seem to work. One of my friends ran this by SimGuruNick but I'm not sure if she received a response, but hopefully they're looking into it. I don't mind rejection chances being increased, but it's become so bad that outside proposals are barely still accepted even in the most perfect setting imaginable.
Mine was inside at a restaurant and still refused.
It happened to me once. But the problem was my sim had 5 more girlfriends. I had to break up with each one of them to finally marry to the sim I want.
Didn’t the OP say that the female sim flirts with lots of people. Maybe if she has multiple romantic interests she needs to ask each of them to only be friends before she will accept a marriage proposal from the OP’s sim?
I will try this. See I play in rotation and I came back to this family after playing other families in my rotation. I came back to her being pregnant. I am not sure that the SIM she is living with is the father. The game is not that real that we have DNA to test paternity. So it could be another SIM she flirts with. Maybe she just wants to marry someone else. Maybe she wants to be with the same sex not a different one and this pregnancy was just a plum. Anyway I am playing it out. I chatted with @Deaderpool directly and he suggested that she could like the same sex. Which I think makes sense. It is not his mod. When I have time today I am going to play this possibility as she flirts with both sexes. Like I said she is always in the pink seems like. Thanks all for suggestions keep them coming. I am open for all.
I will look into that but I went in briefly and it seems a little hard to navigate. I just need like this here you go put in the information and get answers.
My life is complicated. I have time for little snatches of game play. I will look into this when I have mire time right now I just want to answer here and play.
Does she have the Noncommitment trait? I had a scenario like this in my Pinstar's Legacy Challenge game a couple of years back. He was my Gen. 9 heir, so all they really had to do was have a baby, which she did. He must have proposed three separate times before she finally gave in. One time she was so forceful about her rejection, she slapped the ring right out of his hand! I was gob smacked. Here they were, alone, under the stars on the back patio. He gets down on his knee and she gets all angry at him.
I would suggest you have your Sim be persistent and wear he down.
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This is hilarious. I’ve never actually had a sim’s proposal rejected - gonna have to find myself a noncommittal sim to woo. Have any pictures?
It stunned me, actually. She did consent to be his bride in the end. I did keep this family in my library, even though the Legacy Challenge ended with the birth of their baby boy. Sentimental, I guess. I have no intention of playing them any further.
I've noticed marriage proposals getting rejected a lot more since the Seasons patch. I've been thinking it's because my sims weren't in a good enough mood when the proposal was made, but someone in here mentioned that it's happening with sims in great moods as well. So, it must be something the devs tweaked in the last patch. It can be irksome when it seems like there's no reason for it, but I also do enjoy the way it's making me develop storytelling and relationships in my game. Given I've had the "you can't marry a sim in your employ" issue before, this bug is much preferred; if it is in fact a bug.
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I've noticed marriage proposals getting rejected a lot more since the Seasons patch. I've been thinking it's because my sims weren't in a good enough mood when the proposal was made, but someone in here mentioned that it's happening with sims in great moods as well. So, it must be something the devs tweaked in the last patch. It can be irksome when it seems like there's no reason for it, but I also do enjoy the way it's making me develop storytelling and relationships in my game. Given I've had the "you can't marry a sim in your employ" issue before, this bug is much preferred; if it is in fact a bug.
It is fun and more realistic. Makes me want to not make married Sims anymore so my sins,can really pick out their mates.
I play different family's per,session so this,will have me break the rythum but will be worth the experience.
I have time when my husband is asleep (He has brain cancer) so I will play this family again. I will be checking if there is someone else, someone of the,same sex, someone of the opposite sex, or however it Tues out. I will let everyone know on here.
Well last night she had the baby. For some reason it did not show to take her to hospital so she had it in the yard. In the rain no umbrella. I dont know where to get them. They both care for the infant. She went off to work Chef He is a mess those embarrassment buffs are really getting to him
He is at home for a few days until he works again Detective.
He is caring for the baby as I make him. Otherwise I do not think either one would care.
She is not seeing anyone else at this point and there is no evidence that she is seeing anyone else.
He is not asking anymore and they are just going on with their dysfunctional lives.
I am going to move to another family for a few days and I will come back and see what has happened here. Seems more happens when I leave them two alone.
The same thing is happening with one of my sims and his boyfriend, and to be honest I don't like it very much. These two has had a relationship since they were teens, both bars are maxed out, and none of them have non-committal trait (one of them is family oriented). Each time I have had one of them propose they have both been very flirty with steamy exchange, and at least for the last few times I know that they were both in a good mood as well. I have tried having both of them do the proposing, I have tried both indoors and outdoors, on a date and not on a date. But they keep rejecting each other.
Still, both of them keep rolling whims to get engaged to each other, like all the time. So I don't think it makes any sense to break them up either, because it surely seems like both of them really want to get married to each other..
I'm curious to see if this is happening with any other sims in my save, since some of them are starting to date now. If it is a more general thing, I wish it could feel a bit more rational, for instance that I'd get the feeling that one of them don't want it, or there's a reason the timing is a bit off. Or something.
The same thing is happening with one of my sims and his boyfriend, and to be honest I don't like it very much. These two has had a relationship since they were teens, both bars are maxed out, and none of them have non-committal trait (one of them is family oriented). Each time I have had one of them propose they have both been very flirty with steamy exchange, and at least for the last few times I know that they were both in a good mood as well. I have tried having both of them do the proposing, I have tried both indoors and outdoors, on a date and not on a date. But they keep rejecting each other.
Still, both of them keep rolling whims to get engaged to each other, like all the time. So I don't think it makes any sense to break them up either, because it surely seems like both of them really want to get married to each other..
I'm curious to see if this is happening with any other sims in my save, since some of them are starting to date now. If it is a more general thing, I wish it could feel a bit more rational, for instance that I'd get the feeling that one of them don't want it, or there's a reason the timing is a bit off. Or something.
Sounds almost exactly what I am facing so it has to be a bug. I just don't know what else it could be. Like I said I am getting away from it for awhile I am going to play some of my other families and let them just go on as they are until I come back to them. I will come back to them more than I normally would have as I want to see what happens. But I do not see it changing much.
It did not happen with another couple I was not going to group them together but so I could see if it would happen again, I did.
They do not seem as happy together as this couple the proposal was accepted first shot. The only difference was the lady was not pregnant. I pondered
if that had something to do with it
But since you are having the same problem without the pregnancy angle then I think it's a glitch.
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d Its not a MOD defect as I dont have MODS in my game and it has been happening to me.
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Version 4.something of Mccc was causing this problem as I tested it both with and without the mod more than once. The fact is, it was causing this with all and every couples for no reason. This doesn't say that something changed in the proposal behaviour, as they get turned down way more than before, without mods too. It was hard to get refused before even from non-committal sims.
Mine was inside at a restaurant and still refused.
I will try this. See I play in rotation and I came back to this family after playing other families in my rotation. I came back to her being pregnant. I am not sure that the SIM she is living with is the father. The game is not that real that we have DNA to test paternity. So it could be another SIM she flirts with. Maybe she just wants to marry someone else. Maybe she wants to be with the same sex not a different one and this pregnancy was just a plum. Anyway I am playing it out. I chatted with @Deaderpool directly and he suggested that she could like the same sex. Which I think makes sense. It is not his mod. When I have time today I am going to play this possibility as she flirts with both sexes. Like I said she is always in the pink seems like. Thanks all for suggestions keep them coming. I am open for all.
I will look into that but I went in briefly and it seems a little hard to navigate. I just need like this here you go put in the information and get answers.
My life is complicated. I have time for little snatches of game play. I will look into this when I have mire time right now I just want to answer here and play.
Thank you I will download it. Thanks again for all your help.
It stunned me, actually. She did consent to be his bride in the end. I did keep this family in my library, even though the Legacy Challenge ended with the birth of their baby boy. Sentimental, I guess. I have no intention of playing them any further.
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It is fun and more realistic. Makes me want to not make married Sims anymore so my sins,can really pick out their mates.
I play different family's per,session so this,will have me break the rythum but will be worth the experience.
I have time when my husband is asleep (He has brain cancer) so I will play this family again. I will be checking if there is someone else, someone of the,same sex, someone of the opposite sex, or however it Tues out. I will let everyone know on here.
Your right that's what I am going to Che k yonight.
Thank you. But however it works out it should be fun.
They hate each other, and I'm pretty sure they hate me too
He is at home for a few days until he works again Detective.
He is caring for the baby as I make him. Otherwise I do not think either one would care.
She is not seeing anyone else at this point and there is no evidence that she is seeing anyone else.
He is not asking anymore and they are just going on with their dysfunctional lives.
I am going to move to another family for a few days and I will come back and see what has happened here. Seems more happens when I leave them two alone.
Still, both of them keep rolling whims to get engaged to each other, like all the time. So I don't think it makes any sense to break them up either, because it surely seems like both of them really want to get married to each other..
I'm curious to see if this is happening with any other sims in my save, since some of them are starting to date now. If it is a more general thing, I wish it could feel a bit more rational, for instance that I'd get the feeling that one of them don't want it, or there's a reason the timing is a bit off. Or something.
Sounds almost exactly what I am facing so it has to be a bug. I just don't know what else it could be. Like I said I am getting away from it for awhile I am going to play some of my other families and let them just go on as they are until I come back to them. I will come back to them more than I normally would have as I want to see what happens. But I do not see it changing much.
It did not happen with another couple I was not going to group them together but so I could see if it would happen again, I did.
They do not seem as happy together as this couple the proposal was accepted first shot. The only difference was the lady was not pregnant. I pondered
if that had something to do with it
But since you are having the same problem without the pregnancy angle then I think it's a glitch.
These are the traits
Her. Soulmate romantic good clumsy
Him large family sloppy artistic bro.
Don't see the non compatible or am I missing it?