I haven't had a dog yet, so my command menu isn't missing. But my main Sim I play ALWAYS has her commands missing. Other Sims can scold the cats for bad behavior but she can't. But my entire household is missing all commands like , be nice to..., be mean to..., and encourage to mate. When I try to sign my female cat up to be spayed (so I can hopefully unspayed her if that's the issue), she "goes through the machine" and the action immediately drops off and doesn't finish. I've searched and searched for answers to this issue and I haven't found anything related to it except that people DO have these options, but they simply don't work in the end, ever. I don't know what to do.