And as for her attraction to Tobi, it's a little complicated. She's almost punishing herself here She still feels a strong sexual attraction to him, but she doesn't want to sleep with him anymore because their sex life has become very cold and passionless, thanks to the growing distance between them and lack of emotional intimacy It's basically like going through the motions just to get off... And Colette doesn't want that.
I noticed that. It's a shame, but still a very brave thing to do. It reminds me of one of my legacy spouses. She loved her husband, kids, the house, and all the money, but she didn't agree with the legacy way of life. She felt very strongly about it, so she decided to divorce him on principle even though it made her more miserable. But, just like what Colette is doing here, doing things (or not doing things) on principle may not always be the right course of action. I'm not condemning to her a lifetime of cold, passionless love making, of course lol, but I think she's only thinking about herself in this situation.
And as for her attraction to Tobi, it's a little complicated. She's almost punishing herself here She still feels a strong sexual attraction to him, but she doesn't want to sleep with him anymore because their sex life has become very cold and passionless, thanks to the growing distance between them and lack of emotional intimacy It's basically like going through the motions just to get off... And Colette doesn't want that.
I noticed that. It's a shame, but still a very brave thing to do. It reminds me of one of my legacy spouses. She loved her husband, kids, the house, and all the money, but she didn't agree with the legacy way of life. She felt very strongly about it, so she decided to divorce him on principle even though it made her more miserable. But, just like what Colette is doing here, doing things (or not doing things) on principle may not always be the right course of action. I'm not condemning to her a lifetime of cold, passionless love making, of course lol, but I think she's only thinking about herself in this situation.
@Jes2G I think you're right, Colette is being pretty selfish in that regard. She's depriving Tobi without really regarding his feelings on the situation, and is making herself even more miserable as a result. Basically a lose-lose situation for both of them here...
Of course, Tobi is just as much at fault here, but in a different way/for different reasons. They both got themselves into this mess and it will take BOTH of them to get out of it too... But the question is, will they? *dun-dun-dunnn*
Hm I don't understand... if Colette has this burning desire for tobi why doesn't she use this passion during sex if she wants meaningful love making? o.O
Hm I don't understand... if Colette has this burning desire for tobi why doesn't she use this passion during sex if she wants meaningful love making? o.O
@Julyvee94 Hahaha Colette's passion fizzles out very quickly as soon as they're actually in bed together. He doesn't reciprocate the passion, and she can feel it. That makes her sad and not into it anymore. So then, like I said above to pammie, they end up just "going through the motions", if you will.
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@Sonniejj !!! I'm so excited to see you here! Welcome to the forums!
So I'm just reading through the comments on the last page to catch up a bit, and I'm still really interested in the ToCo-drama.
I get Colette's point of view, but where did Tobi's passion go? I mean, I know we all swoon over Tobi, but Colette is hot as well. Girl, throw on some lingerie and surprise your husband! Instant passion. And if she's tried that, what the hell is going on with Tobi? Too much physical exercise at work so he's too exhausted to perform in the bedroom?
Those two drive me crazy because they're so perfect for each other and they could definitely fix it, but they just need to get on top of their issues (and each other) and work them out!
Those two drive me crazy because they're so perfect for each other and they could definitely fix it, but they just need to get on top of their issues (and each other) and work them out!
@Sonniejj OMG the "get on top of their issues (and each other) was priceless
As for Tobi... He's just bored, really. I think things are feeling really stale for him sexually. They've kind of fallen into that "same old, same old" type feeling at this point in their marriage/relationship.
Plus, on an emotional level, he's been distancing himself and being a bit too focused on his work and not quite enough on his wife anymore. I think his emotional distance from her is also translating to "physical" distance as well, if you know what I mean. And the same is starting to happen to her too.
Awww, she really deserves a sweet boyfriend! I wonder what Clara caught though, although maybe she hides him just because she's Clara (Or because he's super old or something)
Awww, she really deserves a sweet boyfriend! I wonder what Clara caught though, although maybe she hides him just because she's Clara (Or because he's super old or something)
@Sterretjeee Yes, Joce deserves a little love Hopefully she'll find some someday And as for Clara/her bf... We will learn more this weekend
Clara should be REALLY carefull since unlike Carly..she's more like likely to be kidnapped because her family is famous her grandpa was a writer, her brother is a soccer play..and her two half-brothers who have a different father that father is famous as well.
Haha @MadameLee a kidnapping plot would be pretty crazy! The Rosebrooks would definitely have a lot of ransom money But I'm pretty sure she's safe in that regard
Poor Tobi, I can imagine how he felt when his body reacted to this massage And she invited him on date hoping for more... Naughty girl
@roseinblack69 hahaha yes, poor Tobi! Talk about awkward And yeah, it seems like Anna took Tobi's uh... "excitement" as a sign of interest... And then he accepted the invite! Oh, Tobi...
Poor Tobi, I can imagine how he felt when his body reacted to this massage And she invited him on date hoping for more... Naughty girl
@roseinblack69 hahaha yes, poor Tobi! Talk about awkward And yeah, it seems like Anna took Tobi's uh... "excitement" as a sign of interest... And then he accepted the invite! Oh, Tobi...
Hahahaha I am sure we think very similar this moment I'm waiting for tomorrow and your new chapter
NOooooo, Tobi no patch things up with colette. This new romance might be nice but it won't last long after the first few ... days or weeks I guess. Flings are feeble!
Tobi, you are too smoldering hot for your own good. Sigh...but maybe this will wake both Colette and him up!! I can see it now...Mari sees him out with Miss Thang and blows a gasket. LOL!
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I noticed that. It's a shame, but still a very brave thing to do. It reminds me of one of my legacy spouses. She loved her husband, kids, the house, and all the money, but she didn't agree with the legacy way of life. She felt very strongly about it, so she decided to divorce him on principle even though it made her more miserable. But, just like what Colette is doing here, doing things (or not doing things) on principle may not always be the right course of action. I'm not condemning to her a lifetime of cold, passionless love making, of course lol, but I think she's only thinking about herself in this situation.
@roseinblack69 I hope so too
@Jes2G I think you're right, Colette is being pretty selfish in that regard. She's depriving Tobi without really regarding his feelings on the situation, and is making herself even more miserable as a result. Basically a lose-lose situation for both of them here...
Of course, Tobi is just as much at fault here, but in a different way/for different reasons. They both got themselves into this mess and it will take BOTH of them to get out of it too... But the question is, will they? *dun-dun-dunnn*
@Jes2G you mean because I pretend I don't know what's going to happen?
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@Julyvee94 Hahaha Colette's passion fizzles out very quickly as soon as they're actually in bed together. He doesn't reciprocate the passion, and she can feel it. That makes her sad and not into it anymore. So then, like I said above to pammie, they end up just "going through the motions", if you will.
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I get Colette's point of view, but where did Tobi's passion go? I mean, I know we all swoon over Tobi, but Colette is hot as well. Girl, throw on some lingerie and surprise your husband! Instant passion. And if she's tried that, what the hell is going on with Tobi? Too much physical exercise at work so he's too exhausted to perform in the bedroom?
Those two drive me crazy because they're so perfect for each other and they could definitely fix it, but they just need to get on top of their issues (and each other) and work them out!
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@Sonniejj OMG the "get on top of their issues (and each other) was priceless
As for Tobi... He's just bored, really. I think things are feeling really stale for him sexually. They've kind of fallen into that "same old, same old" type feeling at this point in their marriage/relationship.
Plus, on an emotional level, he's been distancing himself and being a bit too focused on his work and not quite enough on his wife anymore. I think his emotional distance from her is also translating to "physical" distance as well, if you know what I mean. And the same is starting to happen to her too.
@anaitapeva we'll know more about him soon!
@Sterretjeee Yes, Joce deserves a little love
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@roseinblack69 hahaha yes, poor Tobi! Talk about awkward
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