How many people prefer to be alone? I am a single mom and most of the time prefer it to just be the kids and I. The people I used to hang out with don't understand. But I have been hurt so many times I've learned its easier to just live in my comfort zone.
Hello @JENNIFERZ77
I am sorry that the people you used to spend time with are not understanding of your situation , and that you have been hurt by the actions or words of others. I send hugs to you You are a caring mother to your children. It would not be easy for you being a single mother. It would be at times very tiring for you. Perhaps there may be other single parents of the kids that your children attend school with, that you could be in touch with sometimes just for a chat. Other single parents would understand more about how life is for you. You could just have a chat, and sometimes talking to others in similar situations can be helpful.
It is also special having just family time with your children either at home or visiting places.
I send another hug to you in your loving role of caring for your children on your own
First of all, this is a lovely thread.
Um, onto the less fun part. CW: disordered eating mention
I am struggling with restrictive eating. I ate a bit today, but it made my stomach hurt pretty significantly, cause I hadn't eaten since Saturday. The pain, while not unusual, makes it hard to continue eating so that I've had as much as I should. And I should tell my therapist tomorrow, but I don't want to. Partially because of anxiety and guilt, and partially because... I don't know. I know that if I tell him that will help me not do it, which is obviously why I should tell him but also why ed makes me not want to. Also, I just feel pretty terrible about restricting in general, which makes it hard to admit irl.
First of all, this is a lovely thread.
Um, onto the less fun part. CW: disordered eating mention
I am struggling with restrictive eating. I ate a bit today, but it made my stomach hurt pretty significantly, cause I hadn't eaten since Saturday. The pain, while not unusual, makes it hard to continue eating so that I've had as much as I should. And I should tell my therapist tomorrow, but I don't want to. Partially because of anxiety and guilt, and partially because... I don't know. I know that if I tell him that will help me not do it, which is obviously why I should tell him but also why ed makes me not want to. Also, I just feel pretty terrible about restricting in general, which makes it hard to admit irl.
Hello @hannaht413
I send hugs to you with how you are feeling about food. Your eating disorder would be affecting you both physically and mentally. You are experiencing a wide variety of conflicting feelings and emotions. Please tell your therapisr about how you are feeling and the way you have restricted your eating, when you see him tomorrow. He wants to caringly help you so that you can enjoy life in the best way. Talking things over is so very beneficial and helpful. He will be in a better positiiom to help you also. It is understandable that you are finding things hard as you battle what the eating disorder is doing to your mind, but try to keep remembering that you have loved ones who care about you and want you to enjoy life. You are such a special person , of much value you, whose life is worth fighting for. I care that are battling through this disorder, You are stronger than the disorder. Keep trying to eat even though your body may be hurting. The more times and amount you eat, the easier and less painful and stressful it will be
I send more gentle hugs to you ,
@hannaht413 Hey, while I've not dealt with an ED personally I have a very close friend who has been through that a couple times so I (hope?) I have at least a bit of an understanding of what you're going through. I hope you find the strength to tell your therapist. I know you'll know this already but sometimes it can help to be reminded of it, but no matter how hard it may be now, it'll be a lot easier to get on top of now than it will be in a few weeks or a few months. Take recovery slow and steady, but just make sure you're not standing still. *hugs* and take care of yourself!
@samemie Thanks so much for the words of support! I'm definitely gonna tell him, even though it's gonna be difficult. I also chatted with a friend who knows about it, but putting it out here helped it be easier to talk about with her and hopefully with my therapist tomorrow. *hugs* I definitely do think that having a friend who's dealt with ed gives you some perspective on it. And fortunately (unfortunately? it could be both) I've recovered from other serious mental illnesses/addictions, so I know the general process and I know that I can. It's just a lot harder to see when you haven't eaten and you're tired and your stomach feels terrible. Basically, what I'm saying is: I'm feeling a lot better now than I was earlier, and thank you.
@hannaht413 Glad you're feeling a bit better Again, I haven't ever had an ED but I have also previously done or felt certain things associated with them but only briefly and occasionally so I would like to think I know what its like on a very minor scale. And if it means anything I too am considered to have a mental illness (or at least I think so, the systems so wishy washy and can't seem to make it's mind up) so if you ever need to chat or have someone lend in ear you're welcome to drop me a message. Good luck today and let us know how it goes with your therapist
I have four wisdom teeth that need to come out cause of the way they're positioned. Two have broken through my gums and the other two will never reach the surface cause they're going sideways, right across my lower teeth roots... yay :/
And I'm waiting for an a specialist to call me to book a consult but I'm nervous and such
I have four wisdom teeth that need to come out cause of the way they're positioned. Two have broken through my gums and the other two will never reach the surface cause they're going sideways, right across my lower teeth roots... yay
And I'm waiting for an a specialist to call me to book a consult but I'm nervous and such
Hello @CupcakeViolence
I am sorry to hear that you have issues with your wisdom teeth It would be so very painful for your mouth and when eating!
It will be beneficial to have them removed. It is understandable that you feel nervous and stressed about seeing the specialist and having the sugery. Many people experience the same feelings about dental apointments and procedures. Dental specialists though are highly trained , skilled and will examine your teeth and operate to remove the teeth, in a skilful way. They and dental nurses will be a support for you as you attend the examination and have the operation. They will caringly help you through the dental surgery, and offer reassurance of the beneficial outcome.
I will keep you in my thoughts as you await the phone call to hear about the appointment.
Sending hugs to you
My friend's birthday is tomorrow, and she is having a party at her house. I told her i would go, and even made her a bracelet for a gift. But the thing is, i have anxiety and i'm really nervous. My friend has a lot of other friends who i think will be there, so this is also an opportunity for me to make more friends, but i'm nervous about what they will think of me. One of my biggest social-related fears is people judging me and talking about me behind my back, and i feel like those people will do just that. I Always get nervous in large groups of people, and i never know what to say when talking to people.
This is going to be very different for me then other birthday parties. I've only ever been to my own parties, and one of my cousin's party, and both those times the only people there were people i know. This time there will be people i don't know and will want to meet me and stuff, and i'm just really nervous, i don't really know what to do.
@LyricSimsz15 Maybe you could just let your friend know you're feeling nervous so that she could look out for you while you're there if you start getting too stressed out? Or, is there another friend you could bring with you as a +1? So that you don't feel awkward if you do end up on your own for a bit.
My friend's birthday is tomorrow, and she is having a party at her house. I told her i would go, and even made her a bracelet for a gift. But the thing is, i have anxiety and i'm really nervous. My friend has a lot of other friends who i think will be there, so this is also an opportunity for me to make more friends, but i'm nervous about what they will think of me. One of my biggest social-related fears is people judging me and talking about me behind my back, and i feel like those people will do just that. I Always get nervous in large groups of people, and i never know what to say when talking to people.
This is going to be very different for me then other birthday parties. I've only ever been to my own parties, and one of my cousin's party, and both those times the only people there were people i know. This time there will be people i don't know and will want to meet me and stuff, and i'm just really nervous, i don't really know what to do.
Hello @LyricSimsz15
I send hugs to you as you endure through your social anxiety feelings and nervousness about the party. Your friend has invited you to her party because she values you and cares about you as a friend. She and all the other people who will be attending will be just wanting to enjoy the party and for everyone else that attends to enjoy it also. The other people won't be wanting to judge you or talk nastily about you. At parties, it is the other way around. People are more welcoming and find that it is a great way of getting to know about other people that they haven't met. Try not to be concerned about what you feel that others are thinking about you. Your friend enjoys the friendship that you and her share, and would want you to enjoy her party and feel at ease.
It can be hard sometimes to start conversations, but try to just let others start taliking to you, and the conversations will start flowing. When you find a common interest such as a sport or a music group or tv show or movie, talk about that, and gradually the conversation will get easier and easier.
I send another hug to you I will be thinking of you as you attend the party. It will good to know how the party goes.
@hannaht413 Glad you're feeling a bit better Again, I haven't ever had an ED but I have also previously done or felt certain things associated with them but only briefly and occasionally so I would like to think I know what its like on a very minor scale. And if it means anything I too am considered to have a mental illness (or at least I think so, the systems so wishy washy and can't seem to make it's mind up) so if you ever need to chat or have someone lend in ear you're welcome to drop me a message. Good luck today and let us know how it goes with your therapist
@samemie Thanks so much again for the encouragement and the offer to talk. I did, in fact tell my therapist, and I ate enough today, and I don't feel too terrible. So, pretty good, overall.
@LyricSimsz15: i don't go out much anymore, but something i would often do when i felt uncomfortable was distracting myself with other things. putting out food and drinks, taking care of the music, helping the host whenever possible, etc. maybe this could help? i hope you have a nice time tomorrow.
also, how cool you made a bracelet to give to your friend!!
Hello @hannaht413
It was good that you were able to talk over how you are feeling with your Therapist today. It is great that you ate food today and your body felt okay. Take each day by day, and keep fighting through the eating disorder feelings that you are experiencing. You have us here supporting you and caring about how you are feeling Sending hugs to you
My friend's birthday is tomorrow, and she is having a party at her house. I told her i would go, and even made her a bracelet for a gift. But the thing is, i have anxiety and i'm really nervous. My friend has a lot of other friends who i think will be there, so this is also an opportunity for me to make more friends, but i'm nervous about what they will think of me. One of my biggest social-related fears is people judging me and talking about me behind my back, and i feel like those people will do just that. I Always get nervous in large groups of people, and i never know what to say when talking to people.
This is going to be very different for me then other birthday parties. I've only ever been to my own parties, and one of my cousin's party, and both those times the only people there were people i know. This time there will be people i don't know and will want to meet me and stuff, and i'm just really nervous, i don't really know what to do.
Hello @LyricSimsz15
I send hugs to you as you endure through your social anxiety feelings and nervousness about the party. Your friend has invited you to her party because she values you and cares about you as a friend. She and all the other people who will be attending will be just wanting to enjoy the party and for everyone else that attends to enjoy it also. The other people won't be wanting to judge you or talk nastily about you. At parties, it is the other way around. People are more welcoming and find that it is a great way of getting to know about other people that they haven't met. Try not to be concerned about what you feel that others are thinking about you. Your friend enjoys the friendship that you and her share, and would want you to enjoy her party and feel at ease.
It can be hard sometimes to start conversations, but try to just let others start taliking to you, and the conversations will start flowing. When you find a common interest such as a sport or a music group or tv show or movie, talk about that, and gradually the conversation will get easier and easier.
I send another hug to you I will be thinking of you as you attend the party. It will good to know how the party goes.
Well the party was actually pretty good. Her friends weren't there but who i'm guessing are her cousins were. She also liked the bracelet i made her. We jumped on the trampoline and there was a lot of balloons (everyone was attacking eachother with balloons )
My friend's birthday is tomorrow, and she is having a party at her house. I told her i would go, and even made her a bracelet for a gift. But the thing is, i have anxiety and i'm really nervous. My friend has a lot of other friends who i think will be there, so this is also an opportunity for me to make more friends, but i'm nervous about what they will think of me. One of my biggest social-related fears is people judging me and talking about me behind my back, and i feel like those people will do just that. I Always get nervous in large groups of people, and i never know what to say when talking to people.
This is going to be very different for me then other birthday parties. I've only ever been to my own parties, and one of my cousin's party, and both those times the only people there were people i know. This time there will be people i don't know and will want to meet me and stuff, and i'm just really nervous, i don't really know what to do.
Hello @LyricSimsz15
I send hugs to you as you endure through your social anxiety feelings and nervousness about the party. Your friend has invited you to her party because she values you and cares about you as a friend. She and all the other people who will be attending will be just wanting to enjoy the party and for everyone else that attends to enjoy it also. The other people won't be wanting to judge you or talk nastily about you. At parties, it is the other way around. People are more welcoming and find that it is a great way of getting to know about other people that they haven't met. Try not to be concerned about what you feel that others are thinking about you. Your friend enjoys the friendship that you and her share, and would want you to enjoy her party and feel at ease.
It can be hard sometimes to start conversations, but try to just let others start taliking to you, and the conversations will start flowing. When you find a common interest such as a sport or a music group or tv show or movie, talk about that, and gradually the conversation will get easier and easier.
I send another hug to you I will be thinking of you as you attend the party. It will good to know how the party goes.
Well the party was actually pretty good. Her friends weren't there but who i'm guessing are her cousins were. She also liked the bracelet i made her. We jumped on the trampoline and there was a lot of balloons (everyone was attacking eachother with balloons )
Hello @LyricSimsz15 I am glad that the party went well! It is great that she liked the bracelet that you made for her. It was so special and nice that you made it for her <:3 It sounds like you all had lots of fun on the trampoline! That is great!
Thankyou for letting us know how the party went
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Hello @JENNIFERZ77
I am sorry that the people you used to spend time with are not understanding of your situation , and that you have been hurt by the actions or words of others. I send hugs to you
It is also special having just family time with your children either at home or visiting places.
I send another hug to you in your loving role of caring for your children on your own
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Um, onto the less fun part. CW: disordered eating mention
Hello @hannaht413
I send hugs to you
I send more gentle hugs to you
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So I'm a bit terrified,
I have four wisdom teeth that need to come out cause of the way they're positioned. Two have broken through my gums and the other two will never reach the surface cause they're going sideways, right across my lower teeth roots... yay :/
And I'm waiting for an a specialist to call me to book a consult but I'm nervous and such
Or my blog
On this thread we don't post about other simmers. I didn't want to ignore your post, but I just wanted to let you know that.
I hope that you are having a very nice day
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Oh my gosh I'm so sorry I didn't know :(
If I could go back and erase it I would I'm so so sorry :(
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Hello.
I just wanted to let you know. Perhaps when you are a full member, you could come back and edit the post.
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I just became a full member and I rewrote my post into something much more appropriate and less negative, again I did not know
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Hello @CupcakeViolence
I am sorry to hear that you have issues with your wisdom teeth
It will be beneficial to have them removed. It is understandable that you feel nervous and stressed about seeing the specialist and having the sugery. Many people experience the same feelings about dental apointments and procedures. Dental specialists though are highly trained , skilled and will examine your teeth and operate to remove the teeth, in a skilful way. They and dental nurses will be a support for you as you attend the examination and have the operation. They will caringly help you through the dental surgery, and offer reassurance of the beneficial outcome.
I will keep you in my thoughts as you await the phone call to hear about the appointment.
Sending hugs to you
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My friend's birthday is tomorrow, and she is having a party at her house. I told her i would go, and even made her a bracelet for a gift. But the thing is, i have anxiety and i'm really nervous. My friend has a lot of other friends who i think will be there, so this is also an opportunity for me to make more friends, but i'm nervous about what they will think of me. One of my biggest social-related fears is people judging me and talking about me behind my back, and i feel like those people will do just that. I Always get nervous in large groups of people, and i never know what to say when talking to people.
This is going to be very different for me then other birthday parties. I've only ever been to my own parties, and one of my cousin's party, and both those times the only people there were people i know. This time there will be people i don't know and will want to meet me and stuff, and i'm just really nervous, i don't really know what to do.
Just vibing...
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Hello @LyricSimsz15
I send hugs to you
It can be hard sometimes to start conversations, but try to just let others start taliking to you, and the conversations will start flowing. When you find a common interest such as a sport or a music group or tv show or movie, talk about that, and gradually the conversation will get easier and easier.
I send another hug to you
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@samemie Thanks so much again for the encouragement and the offer to talk.
also, how cool you made a bracelet to give to your friend!!
It was good that you were able to talk over how you are feeling with your Therapist today. It is great that you ate food today and your body felt okay. Take each day by day, and keep fighting through the eating disorder feelings that you are experiencing. You have us here supporting you and caring about how you are feeling
http://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/817478/hello-come-and-introduce-yourself
http://tinyurl.com/OneRoomOneWeek
http://tinyurl.com/rosemow
My Showcase thread https://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/948861/rosemow-s-rooms-showcase
Well the party was actually pretty good. Her friends weren't there but who i'm guessing are her cousins were. She also liked the bracelet i made her. We jumped on the trampoline and there was a lot of balloons (everyone was attacking eachother with balloons
Just vibing...
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Hello @LyricSimsz15 I am glad that the party went well!
Thankyou for letting us know how the party went
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