...in comes LGR with another review that really brings me down. It's a shame that we have different views on it. I used to like his videos, but all he does is complain now. And since everyone takes his word as law here, I feel like the odd one out.
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I used to like his videos too, but I unsubscribed from his channel a while ago for similar reasons.
There are much better reviewers out there to watch, go find them!
I don't think "everyone" here takes his word as law. I see plenty of dissent in every thread that gets started about his reviews. (Personally, I don't watch any video reviews - I get too impatient with them - but if I did, I'd do what I do with any other review: check some past reviews to see if I tend to agree with their opinions. If not, then I know they're not the reviewer for me.)
I am a firm believer if a critic can get you down by acknowledging the flaws of a game...? You probably see the flaws yourself, but you supress that in an attempt to try and enjoy what you subconciously consider a lackluster product. It's not their fault for ruining it for you, they've just evoked a subconcious thought in you and turned it into a concious one. I speak from experience here; I know I've done it in the past.
I've referenced this before, but there was a study on consumer-brand relationships that found people are often personally invested in their brands. What this means is...say you like Xbox and I like Playstation, and we have some talks about which system is better. Both release their new console, and lo and behold Playstation's gets great reviews while the newest Xbox is bombing. You are likely to not only be disappointed that this product you were excited about has failed your expectations, but you are also likely to subconciously register this as a personal failure. What this means is subconciously, you're asking yourself if you're not very smart for betting on a failed product, or if you have bad taste. Your subconcious is second-guessing if the failure of the product is also a failure of your own. As such, what do people do? Console wars. Console wars are largely explained by this study, as what's typically going on is that the consumers themselves want their selected console to be the best so they can feel better about themselves and don't run into subconcious self-esteem issues.
In the end? It's all a joke. A brand's failure isn't really proof that you're not smart or have poor taste, it's just that: a failure of the brand and NOT of the consumer. Since it's subconcious though, it can be rather difficult to come to grips with, and does require some degree of self-reflection to really grasp.
From what you've described, I would definitely question if perhaps you yourself are personally invested in this game. If LGR made some criticisms of the upcoming stuff pack and showed some cracks and flaws with it....so what? This shouldn't affect you. What do you care? Maybe you still enjoy it, maybe you'll agree with him after all but you're still capable of enjoying other games. He's not dissing you, he's dissing Sims 4 and it's newest stuff pack.
So I do say that with all due respect, but I think this is more of a time for you to self-reflect rather than to be upset with him. I'm not saying that in a lecturing manner either like I'm upset with you or something; I think it's to your benefit to ask yourself why this bothers you so much.
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Well, I would recommend that you "mute" it while watching revues. That way you won't hear what they say, but you will see everything that comes in the pack!
I find LGR reviews entertaining. But I don't always agree with him and I don't take his word as law. I am sure you are not the odd one out
I'm not sure why people get so huffy about his videos and people openly enjoying them...
Haha how.. accurate. Made me chuckle.
@DeservedCriticism I have to say that was quite the interesting read there.. but if I may I think you're reading too much into OPs post. For me, it's like a little child showing off their new toy that they're so excited about to their friend.. and the friend comes back and spits on it. I, for one, refuse to state where I stand on the whole LGR fanbase because that's a can of worms I don't want to open.. but all I'm saying is that OP perhaps feels as though someone brought down the mood of excitement around something they're looking forward to.
I completely understand your post and found the read rather enjoyable. I'm just not sure it's that deep for OP.
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how smart, accurate, and centered.
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Personally, I don't take reviews into account to make my opinion before buying. I rather wait for people to start playing and post their unedited videos. Raw videos, where you don't hear comments, just people playing, so I can see what interactions are available and all. I find them valuable, with Wiki articles and complete guides, for making my opinion about buying something, because they will always show more content than a review that must cut plenty of stuff to edit something that's just a few minutes long to be watchable without being boring.
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Take it with a grain of salt. At the end of the day, everyone's a critic.
...But it's not a new toy! OP doesn't even have it yet. And OP isn't a child!!
Like honestly now, I would understand your point if we were talking about children, but we're not. When you grow up, you learn not to get upset when something you're looking forward to starts to seem it might not be as great as you thought. A child has a birthday party and the dog eats his birthday cake? Kid cries, the parents scramble to comfort him, and someone runs out to buy a new cake regardless of price or difficulty in getting it. Adult has a birthday party and the dog eats the cake? Adult sighs, everyone cracks some jokes, then we all order a pizza and say "🐸🐸🐸🐸 happens."
I'm sorry, but I do think there's a level of emotional maturity to being able to cope with letdowns and criticisms of something you've shown interest in. A child views such criticisms as a personal attack, an adult understands those aren't done maliciously. LGR is not maliciously trying to hurt people's feelings, he's giving his own opinionated advice on the worth of a pack to try and advise consumers. And granted as I said, I'm not faulting OP for making what I consider to be a mistake, because I've made that mistake myself. I do think it can be a bit difficult to get a grasp of it the first time since much of it is subconcious, but I also feel it's important to do it, so I view it as unwise to excuse such behavior as "justified." Understandable? Yes. Justified? No.
If you like something? You should like it because you like it, not because others like it. Obviously that's not what's going on here, because some people's opinion of this game is so fragile that all it takes is one critical review of a youtuber and everyone's having second thoughts.
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You shouldn't let anothers opinion diminish your enjoyment of something. Like what you like. Play what you enjoy. If you really don't like his content just don't watch them. There's many other content creators out there. And I'm sure (in fact I've seen the posts) there's many people on this forum that also share your view. So buck up chum
That being said, The Sims is a game that provides such a ridiculous amount of costumization that it allows for very different play styles to develop. I do not have to dismiss anyone's opinion on this game, I would even like to suggest that everyone is right and being honest, even if no one agrees and every single opinion differs. It is just a question of whether the base and material you are provided with has all or any properties that allow you to enjoy your experience.
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