Kids being able to flirt with other kids «12...Next Go

CheekySimmers

I honestly think it'd be so so so so cute, if kids could flirt with kids then be all embarrassed about it after as an update. :) <3

friendlysimmers

bad idea i do not went such a feature in my game

Sara74469

i think it would be so cute if they were able to have crushes and flirt.

JoxerTM22

For once I agree with Memina.
Just no.

JessicaSimston

We actually get school chance cards like "X found a note in his school bag saying U R CUTE. Should X find who wrote it?".

Idk I'm on the fence with this one.

lisasc360

There is a reason why this isn't in the game and the reason goes by the name of Jack Thompson. He attacked TS2 for what was in it or more or less, what was coded in and what the mods made for the game.. Go look up his name and you can see what he said about TS2.

Astro

JessicaSimston wrote: »

We actually get school chance cards like "X found a note in his school bag saying U R CUTE. Should X find who wrote it?".

Idk I'm on the fence with this one.

Yeah, I think that chance card is enough.

Sigzy05

JoxerTM22 wrote: »

For once I agree with Memina.
Just no.

Yeah, same.

I think kids should focus on school and on having fun. Let teens have crushes and boyfriends/girlfriends.

joleaco

CheekySimmers wrote: »

I honestly think it'd be so so so so cute, if kids could flirt with kids then be all embarrassed about it after as an update.

What??? Just no!

Cynel1

i rather have pre-teens.

Cabelle1863

I think I'd rather my sim kids just be kids. Perhaps leave the crushes to a pre-teen life stage, which I hope we'll get someday.

Thenyoukissme

Hmm no I'm not very fond of that idea. I wouldn't like to see children flirt. Having a simple crush might work but flirting is a whole different scenario. Children don't and shouldn't know how to flirt.

212083620

I think it's a cute idea, they shouldn't kiss or mess around of course but I think if they could like flirt or compliment each other or even kiss on the cheek it would be good, don't say it's a bad idea it's only children..

strangeseraph

Childhood crushes are a normal part of growing up, http://www.parents.com/kids/development/friends/how-to-handle-your-childs-first-crush/

But I think EA probably won't do that, its liable to send the wrong message to consumers.

Cynel1

strangeseraph wrote: »

Childhood crushes are a normal part of growing up, http://www.parents.com/kids/development/friends/how-to-handle-your-childs-first-crush/

But I think EA probably won't do that, its liable to send the wrong message to consumers.

this is why pre-teens must be added.

fullspiral

No. I just want the kids to be kids. No flirting.

PeachyKeen88

Cabelle1863 wrote: »

I think I'd rather my sim kids just be kids. Perhaps leave the crushes to a pre-teen life stage, which I hope we'll get someday.

This - the child life stage to me is somewhere between 6-10. I'd rather not see flirting in that age range. Preteens, if introduced, would be a different story (within certain limits of course).

DaniMcgeek

It's different is kids could have their first crush or something along those lines but flirting is a little weird.

luthienrising

This would be a sweet fit if they introduce preteens, as suggested in the Generations description in the EP survey that was seen recently. Otherwise, I think it would increase the jarring we already have going from baby to child.

Cinebar

212083620 wrote: »

I think it's a cute idea, they shouldn't kiss or mess around of course but I think if they could like flirt or compliment each other or even kiss on the cheek it would be good, don't say it's a bad idea it's only children..

No, save it for teens and preteens caught between a kid and a teenager when crushes do develop. I would prefer they spend their money and time on kids playing tag, hide and seek, play ball, play hopscotch, play Red Rover anything physical together. There is enough 'social' in this game as it is.

Neia

Someone posted a light-hearted kid crush concept a little while ago that could work, you might be interested : http://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/841864/childhood-crushes-nothing-serious-but-a-tiny-idea/

GalacticGal

I had a crush on a boy as early as first grade. I may have had a crush on a different boy in kindergarten (or maybe it was the same boy), but that was so very long ago I can't quite recall. Also, I'm not sure full-scale flirting would be in order. Usually, kids do have crushes, but way, way back, for instance, a boy would dip a girl's braid into the ink well when he liked her. They just didn't know how to behave. So, if flirting between children were to be incorporated, it would have to be funny, mean types of behavior. And, if a child is particularly brave, he may steal a quick kiss on her cheek! But, that's about the extent it should be.
I know, I know, today's children know so much more, but that doesn't excuse it, nor make it right.

Cynel1

it would Still feel to weird i rather Have Pre-teens with Crushes.

NatKingSim

Sigzy05 wrote: »

JoxerTM22 wrote: »

For once I agree with Memina.
Just no.

Yeah, same.

I think kids should focus on school and on having fun. Let teens have crushes and boyfriends/girlfriends.

Crushes and love do not only belong to adults or hormones, it is very much a feeling that a child may feel. It has nothing to do with sexuality, so it is nothing that a child "shouldn't focus on" and instead be "doing something else". I loved deeply (as deeply as was possible) when I was 7, 9 and 11. I have been loved by a boy when I was 7 and he was 10. It was all wonderful and fun, nothing adult or sad. But very strong and pure feelings. It did not rob me of my childhood. I was still the last one of my girlfriends to have the first kiss (at 15).

anettesb

NatKingSim wrote: »

Sigzy05 wrote: »

JoxerTM22 wrote: »

For once I agree with Memina.
Just no.

Yeah, same.

I think kids should focus on school and on having fun. Let teens have crushes and boyfriends/girlfriends.

Crushes and love do not only belong to adults or hormones, it is very much a feeling that a child may feel. It has nothing to do with sexuality, so it is nothing that a child "shouldn't focus on" and instead be "doing something else". I loved deeply (as deeply as was possible) when I was 7, 9 and 11. I have been loved by a boy when I was 7 and he was 10. It was all wonderful and fun, nothing adult or sad. But very strong and pure feelings. It did not rob me of my childhood. I was still the last one of my girlfriends to have the first kiss (at 15).

but isn't it then some thing ells than flirting that would be right to add?

maybe crushes, and child friendly ways to express it, and if both sims got a crush they can become heartfriends...


jsut I fear if we call it flirting and things like that EA goes to fare, as they still havn't adressed the incest bug.

Scobre

Isn't this already possible with the incest glitch? I mean I see threads of parents flirting with children and having romantic feelings towards them.