Tom and Rita Hanks MUST be remarried but I can't figure out how to make that happen. Their relationship is almost full green and they are woo whooing twice a day. There are no interactions to propose marriage or get married. I got a wedding arch and no integrations available. Looking back at their memories while I wasn't playing them, apparently Tom kissed another woman. Rita accused him of cheating and then divorced him. Looking at Tom's friend list, he is still showing romantically interested in that other woman. Do I have to get them to break up somehow before he can remarry Rita? Help me save River Valley's most beloved couple!
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It may be good to tell the other woman to "just be friends" though, if you don't want any further surprises.
How does Rita appear in his relationship bar? Does she have the empty heart with the red 'x' on it? If so, have them do basic interactions until the option 'Ask to Be Friends' appears. This will remove the 'ex' symbol and give them a 'clean slate' (so-to speak).
From there, have them spend time together doing all the interactions and things they like to do together (whatever that is). Rita will eventually forgive him and they will move forwards and towards marriage again.
ETA: No go. There are no "ask to be friends" interactions and still no proposal or marriage option. I'm tempted to move Tom out, and have Rita invite him over and see if it can progress from there.
First have them do a few Friendly category thing (not romantic),
Then go to the Mean category and 'ask to be just friends' will be there.
Only then will the wedding ring with the red X in it disappear.
Once that happens, you can start with the romantic things to get to Propose.
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It is in the "Friendly" interactions for exes, and in the "Mean" interactions for romantic interests.
Mean interaction - Ask to just Be Friends, for the other woman Tom cheated with.
For Tom and Rita- Friendly interactions (I think probably 4-5 should do the work) until they have "ask to just Be Friends" interaction and then the ring icon in the relationship bar will disappear.
If there is further problem in the future, I would try to cheat and temporarily alter the sims' trait (from commitment issues to family oriented for example), it helps.
@Rhiannon58 - Was this issue ever resolved? Are your Sims happily re-married?
That's great news. But I would like to meet this "amazing team" of which you speak some day. They sound like some pretty nice and helpful folks. Where have you been hiding them?
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