Relationships messed up again

Susim62

Since the patch my sims relationship bars are empty.
I have the no relationship culling mod and my sims still know each other but friends have become aquaintances, even sims with the Beloved trait, which is supposed to stop relationship decay.
This really needs to be sorted out, it's maddening to have to repair relationships yet again.
Anyone else having this problem?

rosemow

Hello.
I am sorry that you are having this issue. Are you able to build up the relationships again or are they stuck at acquaintances? If you are having issues, destroy their relationship, then try to build the relationship back up again.
The beloved trait hasn't been working when more than one sim in the household has it.

Susim62

I haven't got so far as to see if the relationships can be repaired.
How do you destroy a relationship? My sims already have no 'green' in their relationship bars for former friends.

rosemow

Susim62 wrote: »

I haven't got so far as to see if the relationships can be repaired.
How do you destroy a relationship? My sims already have no 'green' in their relationship bars for former friends.

It sounds like the relationships have already been destroyed. .
You can use these relationship cheats to build up their relationship levels
http://simsvip.com/sims-4-cheats-codes/#Relationships

Edit : I have mistakenly written wrong information. The no more relationship culling mod is still working. What simmers had posted and thought was the mod not working , was not relationship culling. It was relationship decay
I have removed the wrong information so as not to cause confusion. I am so sorry.

Susim62

Thankyou for your help, I'll look into that.

rosemow

You're welcome

Susim62

Iv'e got around to downloading the Mc Command Centre mod but haven't installed yet. I just wanted to ask, should I remove the other mod (nomorerelationship culling) from my game first?

luthienrising

Susim62 wrote: »

Iv'e got around to downloading the Mc Command Centre mod but haven't installed yet. I just wanted to ask, should I remove the other mod (nomorerelationship culling) from my game first?

Yes; they conflict. There's a no-relationship-culling setting in MCCC you can use.

Susim62

Ok thanks.

rosemow

The bypass relationship culling setting is in the population setting section of MC Command Center.

Audio_5urf

Welp, while dealing with the restaurant ownership fiasco.. 2 sim weeks passed.. so when I decided to play a different household.. they went from 16 friends to only knowing each other and still being in love thankfully.. and the random flirts they game decided to do.. just a shame I need to fix those friendships so I can throw my wedding.

rosemow

Audio_5urf wrote: »

Welp, while dealing with the restaurant ownership fiasco.. 2 sim weeks passed.. so when I decided to play a different household.. they went from 16 friends to only knowing each other and still being in love thankfully.. and the random flirts they game decided to do.. just a shame I need to fix those friendships so I can throw my wedding.

I am sorry to hear that your sims lost their friends I hope that their upcoming wedding day goes smoothly.

Audio_5urf

nothing a lot typing and cheats cant fix.

rosemow

Audio_5urf wrote: »

nothing a lot typing and cheats cant fix.

Cheats are very helpful when issues occur.

Audio_5urf

yeah, the wedding is happening regardless, the story demands it.
I tend to use cheats in my main save to keep things moving at my pace anyway.. so a few more wont kill me.

christian_39

Audio_5urf wrote: »

nothing a lot typing and cheats cant fix.

For fixing relationships use the MC Command Center mod. It will make everything easier, just a few click on every sim (instead of having to type the whole relationship cheat)

rosemow

christian_39 wrote: »

Audio_5urf wrote: »

nothing a lot typing and cheats cant fix.

For fixing relationships use the MC Command Center mod. It will make everything easier, just a few click on every sim (instead of having to type the whole relationship cheat)

Hello
MC Comnand Center is helpful to fix up relationships and other problems when issues occur.

starrciara

Same here! All of my relationships seem to be decreasing VERY rapidly. Husbands and Wives who have been together since they were teens don't even have the option to WooHoo because they are simply acquaintances -_-. It makes no sense! Parents and children have what appears to be no relationship with each other (no green bar...just emptiness). It's very frustrating and saddening to say the least.

Madimarie272

Am I the only one who really misses toddlers? They don't have them in Sims 4 and its so awkward going from baby to child...

crinrict

There's plenty of threads in the feedback/ideas forum for that.

Madimarie272 wrote: »

Am I the only one who really misses toddlers? They don't have them in Sims 4 and its so awkward going from baby to child...

DJNS

I'm getting frustrated too. I play in rotation so this is game-breaking for me. I used that very time consuming cheat to repair all my nerfed relationships but the decay is so fast that by the time I rotated back around I was right back where I started. It's ridiculous that I have to use a cheat so my couple can interact romantically or so that they can have a relationship with their children. I need this fixed and I need it fixed NOW.

rosemow

DJNS wrote: »

I'm getting frustrated too. I play in rotation so this is game-breaking for me. I used that very time consuming cheat to repair all my nerfed relationships but the decay is so fast that by the time I rotated back around I was right back where I started. It's ridiculous that I have to use a cheat so my couple can interact romantically or so that they can have a relationship with their children. I need this fixed and I need it fixed NOW.

Hello.
I am sorry that you are having this issue.
If you use mods, you may like to use the relationship decay setting in MC Command Center to help with the issue.
The link to the mod is
http://modthesims.info/d/551680

Susim62

DJNS wrote: »

I'm getting frustrated too. I play in rotation so this is game-breaking for me. I used that very time consuming cheat to repair all my nerfed relationships but the decay is so fast that by the time I rotated back around I was right back where I started. It's ridiculous that I have to use a cheat so my couple can interact romantically or so that they can have a relationship with their children. I need this fixed and I need it fixed NOW.

So, you're saying that after repairing the relationship you have to do it again on the next rotation?
I've been playing a new save game to test this and my sims relationships seem stable, so I thought it was a one off occurence ( the sudden relationship decay).

I'm holding out for the next patch to see if this issue is fixed before I play my main save...if not, I have MC Command Center waiting on my desktop.

rosemow

Susim62 wrote: »

DJNS wrote: »

I'm getting frustrated too. I play in rotation so this is game-breaking for me. I used that very time consuming cheat to repair all my nerfed relationships but the decay is so fast that by the time I rotated back around I was right back where I started. It's ridiculous that I have to use a cheat so my couple can interact romantically or so that they can have a relationship with their children. I need this fixed and I need it fixed NOW.

So, you're saying that after repairing the relationship you have to do it again on the next rotation?
I've been playing a new save game to test this and my sims relationships seem stable, so I thought it was a one off occurence ( the sudden relationship decay).

I'm holding out for the next patch to see if this issue is fixed before I play my main save...if not, I have MC Command Center waiting on my desktop.

Hello @Susim62
There will be a patch this week, so there may be a fix for the issue then.
It is a good sign that in your new save , the relationships are staying steady after the first sudden decay.