I have a huge problem where I just don't connect with my narrative. Like, I have yet to discover a style of legacy writing that I like enough to continue. I start, I like the story in my head, but I don't know how to communicate it. I don't really have this problem in my book writing outside of sims lol and I really like legacies. I would love to actually be able to stick with one. I'm going through my blog completely clearing garbage out so I can try to find something I like and make something that I'm legitimately happy with. Does anybody have tips on how to write a legacy and not absolutely hate it?
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I think part of the issue is that I am a perfectionist, and my own worse critic. I'd get in to my own head, thinking that there is really no point to posting this story online, because it's crap, and I'd scrap the idea and drop the Sims for a while. I really hate not finishing what I start, so it got to the point where I just forced myself to be honest and to think about why I was writing. Was I writing for approval? Was I writing because I loved the story? Was I writing because I just love to write? I knew what the answer was, but hadn't been honest with myself about it. I love writing and have since I was a child, but I am a people pleaser, and afraid of rejection. And that's what stopped me from publishing stories or even trying to finish a legacy.
When thinking about my goals for 2017, I decided that I was limiting my potential to be successful as a writer, and it was time to move past that. I decided that I would create a legacy in Sims 4 and that I would follow through with it. If I hated the story or my characters, I'd reach out, be vulnerable, and ask for help from more experienced SimLit writers. I might even take a short break. But I would not give up and I would not quit. To become a better writer, you have to keep writing, and quitting every story/legacy that I started wasn't helping me.
I don't know if any of this is helpful, but here's my advice: decide what your motivation is for writing, and remind yourself of it when you don't like your characters or your writing. Push through it. If a particular plot point or section is giving you trouble, put it down for a few days and come back to it. Build friendships and a network with other writers, and maybe join or start a reading circle with the intent to receive constructive criticism on your writing and give it to others. But don't give up on yourself, or on your writing.
When I thought about my own writing over the holidays, I realized that I have this urge to write and create because it's a part of who I am. It's a passion of mine. And that I was only hurting myself with my perfectionism and refusal to take risks. I need to keep writing even when I'm stuck, or am not a huge fan of a character. I can't improve my craft if I just stop trying.
Apologies for the long post. You are definitely not alone in your struggle. If there's anything I can do to help you, please don't hesitate to reach out to me. Good luck in your writing!
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I write because I love to! I've been a writer basically my entire life but just like you I'm a super perfectionist! I scrap things and try to rewrite them until I'm in a perpetual loop of this isn't good enough!!!
Is the legacy in your banner the legacy you want to stick with this year? I would love to follow it and support you as you try to keep a story without scrapping it!!! Thank you for your long post I appreciate it!!
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I 'm trying to write something, but it's hard to get it going. I'm not doing a legacy, but rather a independent story where I use the game more like props. Add in the fact I'm trying to write in english, which isn't my first language, and you have my headache. I feel I have a pretty good grasp on both understanding and writing in english, but it makes me hyper critical of what I write and the flow of my dialogue.
Can you link me to it? If there's a link in the banner I can't get to it.
In my signature now! Here is the link as well.
http://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/909670/the-sterling-legacy-updated-1-22-2017-chapter-1-4/p1
The Sterling Legacy - a celestial Sims 4 legacy challenge
This is actually a really good idea, I didn't think about playing multiple townie families and building a story from that.
The Sterling Legacy - a celestial Sims 4 legacy challenge
This actually makes a lot of sense. I'm currently doing kind of a mix, because for the first time I'm writing before going into game, but I'm still kind of playing off the game a bit(randomizing traits, not planning the children, allowing sims whims to change outcome). I think going forward I'll try out what you suggest. I'll plan out plots and writing, but use the legacy format. Thank you!