I am not sure what is happening here. I have had 2 of my sims try to invite their best friends over but they keep getting declined. The sims are not at work, they just say the don't feel like it. Has anyone ever had this happen or any idea what is going on?
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Of course, a MC reset will take care of the problem. But if you find a particularly stubborn sim, you can always use MC to make them show up. Click on the sim, or City Hall if you don't feel like tracking them down, NRaas > MC > (sim) > Basic > Invite Over. If they really didn't want to show up, though, or you asked a few times in a row, they might think your sim is being awkward or creepy. But a simple apology will fix the issue.
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The other thing I should have said is that even after a reset, the sim might still refuse a phone invite if you've already tried at least once that day. The game apparently still remembers that the other sim said no thanks sometime in the last 24 hours, and a second invitation doesn't work. But that's what mods are for.
True Sim friendships are a bit tricky to obtain. They will depend not just on traits but the amount of time you spend with your friend and the type of things/activities/events you share with your friends. Some Simmers have suggested that it really doesn't matter what you do with your 'friends', just that you do something with them. Can't say I fully agree with this as I have found it better to invite a Sim who likes fishing to go out fishing with my Sim and one who is athletic to the gym to build the best friendships. It also doesn't hurt to have your Sim pick up the phone and call his/her friend every-so-often just to keep the relationship up.
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I prefer the MC > Basic > Invite Over method though. It's a bit cheaty, but if I know the sims I am inviting are best friends, beloved relatives, etc. and aren't really busy at the time, it cuts through the random element (or the one we can't at the time figure out) getting in the way. I'll still use the phone or in person invite interaction if there's any doubt that the other sim might accept, two friends just getting to know each other for example. In those cases, an occasional "Nah, I have to wash my hair and clean the birdcage tonight" seem a bit more realistic.
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If the grandparents, in that example, would really rather be someplace else that evening, then they are free to leave after they arrive and have been greeted. I might be disappointed, but won't try to force them to stay.
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Okay actually I'm totally and completely nuts LOL
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What often strikes me as funny is that "Ask to Move In" will frequently show up as a social interaction before or at the same time as "Invite Over." Sheesh, I just wanted to play video games with my friends and order a pizza or something like that, I wasn't looking for a reason to expand my one bedroom apartment and make a lifelong commitment!
If they still refuse, then you might be able to use MC to find out why -- check their motive scores (MC > Basic > Mood) and moodlets (MC > Intermediate > Moodlets > Remove Moodlet, but just to see the list not to really remove anything), and their Career status to make sure they aren't planning to get ready for work soon. Even that can be difficult to see, I've had inactive sims claim to need to be getting ready for work "soon" when it's 12 noon and they didn't start work until 5pm or later.
And if it's not any of those things and they are still refusing to come over, then I would have to say these sims don't really like yours as much as you think they do.
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Actually it's not really unusual the game doesn't always do a good job keeping inactive sims motives at a decent level it always leaves a couple of them very low. Have you tried using MC's Max Motives on them?
Find the sim if their on a community lot like the park pause the game then click on the sim MC>Intermediate>Max Motives unpause the game keep that sim in view wait about 4 or 5 seconds and then use your sims map tag (which you should be able to see somewhere on the screen) to Invite them over.
If their in a house first open the house click on the house or it's map tag MC>Open then find the sim once found pause the game and use Max Motives on them and follow the rest of the steps. And make sure to close the house back up after your done MC>Close
If they refuse the invite after that then maybe something funky is going on. But if they accept the invite that means the game isn't managing all their motives well.
Just make sure to pick a time they don't have to be anywhere say right after they get off from work.
Okay actually I'm totally and completely nuts LOL