Unable to Marry

Alli-beagle

I have posted about this before but my sims are unable to propose and I can't even marry them with cheats. They were promised as teens so maybe that is why they can't marry or because I used cheats to age one of them up. Once again any advice, I guess I could just pretend they are married.

Alli-beagle

I forgot to say under they relationship is still says promised and just good friends even though they are dating

Alli-beagle

I am also able to ask the other sim if they are single and they say yes when they are dating. It doesn't make sense.

rosemow

Hello
Are they both young adults now?
Do your sims still have the option to " just be friends" ? If they do, select that option, then try building up their relationship until the propose option comes up.

Alli-beagle

Yes they are both young adults. I will try to click the just be friends option. Thank you.

rosemow

You're welcome I hope that it helps.

Catamok2017

Same problem. I tried this solution, took them down to friends, built the romance back up again, and same result. "Marrying a Sim in your employ ..." nonsense. None of the Sims are employed, there are no servants. I took them into a new house and cleared the clubs, too. Finally used the "relationship.add_bit ... romantic-married" cheat to fix it and move on.

rosemow

Catamok2017 wrote: »

Same problem. I tried this solution, took them down to friends, built the romance back up again, and same result. "Marrying a Sim in your employ ..." nonsense. None of the Sims are employed, there are no servants. I took them into a new house and cleared the clubs, too. Finally used the "relationship.add_bit ... romantic-married" cheat to fix it and move on.

Hello @Catamok2017
If this occurs again with your sims, have the sims break up their relationships with any other boyfriends or girlfriends that they have. Then see if that helps the issue.

www55

Hi, I am having this same issue and nothing seems to work. Both of my sims do not have another boyfriend or girlfriend, they only have that high of a romance level with one another.

rosemow

www55 wrote: »

Hi, I am having this same issue and nothing seems to work. Both of my sims do not have another boyfriend or girlfriend, they only have that high of a romance level with one another.

Hello @www55
Try using the " just be friends" interaction, then build up their relationship levels again until the propose option comes up