Now I'm not too sure about the adoption process in real life or how it varies country to country but I do plan on adopting all of my kids in the future when I'm ready. For the sake of topic we'll go with the American adoption system but feel free to talk about how it is in your country but just let us know that you're talking about your country.
Anyway what bugs me is how when you adopt a child they're instantly friends with both parents. Often times in real life children at that age can feel abandoned or just not trusting. The whole "you're not my real mom!" Etc.I would think adoption would have that reflect life where the child starts out at 0 relationship score since the child needs to be shown they can trust you and that you care.
Forgive me if I'm wrong but I don't believe it's just a simple "you adopted me yay we're best friends now'. Maybe in some cases it is but meh..
Any stories of your own adoptions or feed back to tell?
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So for your Sim adoptees you could try
modifyrelationship Sam Sim Stu Sim -50 Friendship_Main
and that would take the relationship between Sam and his dad Stu down to 0. If you wanted to make it 0 on both sides you'd have to repeat t using Stu first then Sam as the target, but it might be more realistic to have Dad (and Mom) like the kid, but the kid not trusting quite yet.
Not sure if -50 is too much, so you might want to practice first -- go ahead and save the family after the adoption, then try and adjust the relationship down so if you mess up and the relationship goes into the red you can exit without saving then reload the family.
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It would be a good way to add a challenge that maybe it could be harder to build a relationship with a new child.
Kids can't always be bribed into making friends anyway
I use the ui extension mod which basically does the same thing without a whole bunch of cheats to input. I just set their score to 0 but I thought it'd be cool to discuss.
EDIT: Oh, misread that! You mean with the child. Yes, that should start out slowly. But I guess I can make it so.
Actually, yes, some people do want a more complex game. It adds challenge, depth, and makes you care about the outcome of your Sims.
The sims 4 is way too happy at the moment. I remember back in thr sims 2 when my vampire sim stayed out a bit past dark accidentally and I rushed to get her home to safety. She turned to ashes right outside her door and a social worker came to take the baby. It was so heart breaking but it added alot to my story.
I had actually saved and reloaded many times but she died every time so I went with it. It was my first sims 2 family and I didn't know about motive cheats to raise her hunger etc. I miss those kind of tragic stories.
Slowly befriending a child could be really sweet watchikg them slowly open up to you and love you as a parent.
*Side note* My daughter also plans to adopt when she's ready.
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That's a really old glitch. If your sims aren't married it only shows the adopter as the parent I believe.