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Feeling hurt by someone nearby...

justdancerebeccajustdancerebecca Posts: 1,334 Member
Does anyone know what exactly triggers this? My toddler gets this moodlet almost constantly...mostly during friendly conversation, but sometimes even when she is idle it pops up unwarranted. She apparently feels that way towards her mother, who pretty much never said anything unfriendly to begin with. She's perpetually sad because of it now, regardless of what mom says or does to make things better. :|
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    SharoniaSharonia Posts: 4,853 Member
    My child sim had this sentiment towards her mum but I didn’t see what happened to cause it. I would also like to know.
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    AnnLee87AnnLee87 Posts: 2,475 Member
    Don't attempt the seven toddler challenge. They all got sad and were all crying when they should have been playing in snow.
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    justdancerebeccajustdancerebecca Posts: 1,334 Member
    AnnLee87 wrote: »
    Don't attempt the seven toddler challenge. They all got sad and were all crying when they should have been playing in snow.

    Yikes, that's brutal :#
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    TTNsimmerTTNsimmer Posts: 684 Member
    Does anyone know what exactly triggers this? My toddler gets this moodlet almost constantly...mostly during friendly conversation, but sometimes even when she is idle it pops up unwarranted. She apparently feels that way towards her mother, who pretty much never said anything unfriendly to begin with. She's perpetually sad because of it now, regardless of what mom says or does to make things better. :|
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    I see that the toddler is independent. Maybe the mother is always helping her?
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    SimTrippySimTrippy Posts: 7,660 Member
    My child (not toddler) sim got it when she was forced to do homework. I quite liked it, the toddler never has it. Maybe it is something to do with her trait like @kostasmpi suggests? My toddler is a charmer and usually just goes along with everything. I'll give the brother the independent or fuzzy trait when he becomes a toddler, I'm curious now ^^
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    DaraviDaravi Posts: 1,168 Member
    I'm curious too. My toddler (independed trait too) was also mad at his mother, and I didn't see what was happened. I remember that they had a normal chat, and let the mother told a story, plus some training, but then I changed to the other family members and then he was hurt suddenly.
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    adduapinaadduapina Posts: 556 Member
    I don't thibk this sentiment is really working properly on toddlers. I got this also without any reason to be seen and would like to avoid it in the future. :/
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    SimTrippySimTrippy Posts: 7,660 Member
    Okay my toddler just aged up and rolled the independent trait (not surprised, that was one plum of an annoying baby compared to his sisters). Let's see what happens (Fuyuka still never gets this moodlet).
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    AprilDawnAprilDawn Posts: 795 Member
    I also had a toddler that got it for no reason - has the Charmer trait. Perhaps they assume all toddlers go through the terrible twos!
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    GreatestPlannerGreatestPlanner Posts: 78 Member
    Ok that's way too dramatic. A toddler that has this strong feelings towards her mother for probably something so normal to occur in day to day life. I think for certain relationships these sentiments should have a different or less strong effect. This toddler is already rejecting her own mother :D Come on..
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    haneulhaneul Posts: 1,954 Member
    Ok that's way too dramatic. A toddler that has this strong feelings towards her mother for probably something so normal to occur in day to day life. I think for certain relationships these sentiments should have a different or less strong effect. This toddler is already rejecting her own mother :D Come on..

    Haha, but it actually sounds normal. :D Toddlers are super dramatic and get mad at their parents for silly things on the regular.
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    izecsonizecson Posts: 2,875 Member
    I got the sentiment when my Sims was being insulted by his sister multiple times in short period,she got the sentiment as well because he insulted her back without remorse.
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    EdithVEdithV Posts: 859 Member
    edited November 2020
    I know it might be annoying but it’ll likely fade out, you could see it as adding depth to the relationship-they could have a more difficult time when the child is young but they get close as she gets older. I think it makes the gameplay more rich and interesting as the sims seem more developed.
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    Dannakyri1Dannakyri1 Posts: 207 Member
    adduapina wrote: »
    I don't thibk this sentiment is really working properly on toddlers. I got this also without any reason to be seen and would like to avoid it in the future. :/

    @adduapina have you ever had a toddler. These reactions seem right on par for a toddler to me. I mean my kid has laid down on the floor and died because I gave her the wrong pants/plate/book/shoes. Toddlers are irrational little creatures. Perhaps they used the "why my kid is crying" posts on facebook for real life toddler inspiration.
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    CelSimsCelSims Posts: 2,270 Member
    Dannakyri1 wrote: »
    adduapina wrote: »
    I don't thibk this sentiment is really working properly on toddlers. I got this also without any reason to be seen and would like to avoid it in the future. :/

    @adduapina have you ever had a toddler. These reactions seem right on par for a toddler to me. I mean my kid has laid down on the floor and died because I gave her the wrong pants/plate/book/shoes. Toddlers are irrational little creatures. Perhaps they used the "why my kid is crying" posts on facebook for real life toddler inspiration.

    Yeh but they don't get a lasting hurt feeling about it from what I recall of my own. Pull a funny face or wave a dinosaur at them or something and all is well again. Days later they aren't still brooding that you gave them the wrong tshirt!
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    SheriSim57SheriSim57 Posts: 7,058 Member
    Could it have something to do with the new patch to fix the patch that caused crashing? Or did it happen before?
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    GalacticGalGalacticGal Posts: 29,102 Member
    kostasmpi wrote: »
    Does anyone know what exactly triggers this? My toddler gets this moodlet almost constantly...mostly during friendly conversation, but sometimes even when she is idle it pops up unwarranted. She apparently feels that way towards her mother, who pretty much never said anything unfriendly to begin with. She's perpetually sad because of it now, regardless of what mom says or does to make things better. :|
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    I see that the toddler is independent. Maybe the mother is always helping her?

    Oh, I had a child like that in RL. It was so bad, I warned his Kindergarten teacher that he would likely get belligerent, if she swooped in to help him out too soon. I suggested she ask him if he would like help. He was always good about accepting help if I let him try to work it out on his own, first. I would ask before he got frustrated, just to be sure.

    I have a hunch that could very well be it. Not certain how to undo such 'damage' though. Yikes. I haven't yet seen that one.
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    GalacticGalGalacticGal Posts: 29,102 Member
    Daravi wrote: »
    I'm curious too. My toddler (independed trait too) was also mad at his mother, and I didn't see what was happened. I remember that they had a normal chat, and let the mother told a story, plus some training, but then I changed to the other family members and then he was hurt suddenly.

    Could be jealousy. Sibling rivalry or a mixture of the two.
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    justdancerebeccajustdancerebecca Posts: 1,334 Member
    SheriSim57 wrote: »
    Could it have something to do with the new patch to fix the patch that caused crashing? Or did it happen before?

    For me, it was after the patch.

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    justdancerebeccajustdancerebecca Posts: 1,334 Member
    Daravi wrote: »
    I'm curious too. My toddler (independed trait too) was also mad at his mother, and I didn't see what was happened. I remember that they had a normal chat, and let the mother told a story, plus some training, but then I changed to the other family members and then he was hurt suddenly.

    Could be jealousy. Sibling rivalry or a mixture of the two.

    Same. Now that I think about it, It started happening while the independent toddler was in a friendly conversation with her mom, dad, and twin sister. Everyone makes good points, maybe it is a mix?
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    justdancerebeccajustdancerebecca Posts: 1,334 Member
    kostasmpi wrote: »
    Does anyone know what exactly triggers this? My toddler gets this moodlet almost constantly...mostly during friendly conversation, but sometimes even when she is idle it pops up unwarranted. She apparently feels that way towards her mother, who pretty much never said anything unfriendly to begin with. She's perpetually sad because of it now, regardless of what mom says or does to make things better. :|
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    I see that the toddler is independent. Maybe the mother is always helping her?

    That makes sense! I'll see if it happens with anyone else. Her sister doesn't have the trait and I haven't had any sentiment issues yet, so maybe
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    GreatestPlannerGreatestPlanner Posts: 78 Member
    edited November 2020
    haneul wrote: »
    Ok that's way too dramatic. A toddler that has this strong feelings towards her mother for probably something so normal to occur in day to day life. I think for certain relationships these sentiments should have a different or less strong effect. This toddler is already rejecting her own mother :D Come on..

    Haha, but it actually sounds normal. :D Toddlers are super dramatic and get mad at their parents for silly things on the regular.

    The direction this seems take for me, is that the toddler is seen as any other life stage which is a problem as they are clearly not.

    Just for jokes, I imagine her eventually pack her bags and move out of the house, cause she is tired of her mom :D
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    spend4zenspend4zen Posts: 244 Member
    I have a feeling Sentiments is going to need to go through a few tweaks and patches before it works right. My Sims who are close, and are the only two in the household, get Sad all the time, For everything! One has to pee really bad and is cross leg walking to the bathroom and the other gets sad because they are suffering. Then the other Sim gets Sad because roomie is Sad that they had to pee so bad and it is a terrible endless cycle.
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    BeardedgeekBeardedgeek Posts: 5,520 Member
    Are you guys having mods?
    Because I have NO weird experiences with Sentiments at all. Admittedly I only play a childless couple (for now) but all they do is feel happy and comfy because they're in love and close to eachother. I don't even notice that it's "on" most of the time, they're just happier than they used to be.

    Of course they have matching (2 out of 3) traits, which with Sentiments provide a happy boost, plus Best Friends (also happy boost), plus Soulmates (happy boost)...
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    justdancerebeccajustdancerebecca Posts: 1,334 Member
    edited November 2020
    Are you guys having mods?
    Because I have NO weird experiences with Sentiments at all. Admittedly I only play a childless couple (for now) but all they do is feel happy and comfy because they're in love and close to eachother. I don't even notice that it's "on" most of the time, they're just happier than they used to be.

    Of course they have matching (2 out of 3) traits, which with Sentiments provide a happy boost, plus Best Friends (also happy boost), plus Soulmates (happy boost)...

    Yes I use mods, but I've never had issues with sentiments between adults though, and not even toddlers until...Alissa lmao
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