Hi guys not sure if this will be allowed on here, but in case its allowed, since we had it on our home sim page here is a few updates about how my whole brother situation is going.
I have been contacted by a digital detective, they do all their searches on technology, he has been paid by a friend that used to work with my brother. It must have been expensive so I am very thankful to that friend, but he wishes to remain anonymous. I know I paid just over R20 000 for my detective some time back, so know this person had to pay a lot too. Unfortunately it just does not seem good even with them investigating. They said that his "digital footprint"stops on the 2nd of March. Usually when someone goes missing and its on purpose like running away there will always be some sort of a digital device or social network accessed, whether on existing accounts or new ones made up. But as there has been not even one sighting of my brother there has been not even a second of activity in any technical way. They are not allowed to 100 percent confirm it since there is no body found, but their investigations suggest my brother might have passed somewhere, whether it was murder or accident, we will never know. My brother has been missing for 2 years and seven months now. I still have his page
that I am running under a false facebook account that has no friends, I just could not cope with all the questions of family and friends, and social media was depressing me even more. I did leave his page in the hands of his one missing person agent, but he let me down by unpublishing it, a kind simmer here let me know when she could not access the page via my signature, now I run it with the above mentioned false account. I have had the girlfriend threatening so sue me when I did a huge information release on my brothers birthday on the 28th April, but it was not me saying she looked suspicious it was followers on my page, so she had no leg to stand on and is finally leaving me alone now. I started working to keep my mind busy, that seems to help keep me sane, so far its not looking positive, but I won't stop searching until I have a 100 percent answer of where he is or what happened to him. People keep on telling me that secrets do come out, so if someone knows we will get answers, so that is what I am hoping for now. I would like to thank everyone that has been in contact with me, you guys are all amazing
Sorry if I am a bit quiet, I am just keeping busy with sims, work and life at the moment
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In my time browsing these forums I've seen you post a few times and wondered to myself who your signature concerned (I got a little hung up on the term 'boetie', is it Australian?). Reading this post, I've figured it out finally.
Anyway, I hope that one day you do find answers, and that hopefully they are comforting in some way. 🙂
Thank you very much, we all pray for some answers too. Boetie is Afrikaans for little brother. I am the eldest so he is my little brother. I always used to call him Boetie and he called me Sus, which meant Sister in english. I miss him terribly
I know what it's like to have someone vanish from your live suddenly. Not a sibling, but a dear friend. (Sometimes they're the same) I knew this person for roughly a decade, then one day they just disappeared completely.
I only recently, nearly five years afterward found out what had happened to them, but the experience still leaves me wanting for closure. You sound like you are better apt to handle your situation than I was mine though, so I commend you for that. 😊
Much love to you Mel (/^‿^)/ ❤\(^‿^\) *ᕼᑌGᔕ ᗩᑎᗪ ᗷᒪᕮᔕᔕIᑎGᔕ*
Fun must be always -- Tomas Hertl (San Jose Sharks hockey player)
Not really, I have a lot of support and is just taking it a day at a time, but some days I battle so much, closure of any sort would be very much appreciated, but I understand I might not ever get that. Glad you finally got an answer, its horrible not knowing.
Thanks beautiful Katie You are such an awesome support for me, sorry if I don't always reply your texts
Thanks Jacks Hope all is well
Thanks Marg, you are an amazing person
Do not apologise. Just know I am here if/whenever you need someone (/^‿^)/ ❤ \(^‿^\) *ᔕᑫᑌIᔕᕼY ᕼᑌGᔕ ᗩᑎᗪ ᒪOTᔕ Oᖴ ᒪOᐯᕮ*
Sorry I missed your post with the replies. Thank you so much. Glad my rooms come in handy. Just enjoying get famous for a bit then I wil update te rooms again with our new positive posters
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It's a lot of fun!
Thank you very much
To all thanks for your support. My thread used to be over at our New Zealand and Australia corner, but was moved here. I used to keep my aussie and kiwi friends updated since I live in New Zealand. We used to have our own forums section like the us has theirs, but now we have a discussion thread area for our threads. I am sorry if I am stepping on toes with my thread being in the off topic section now
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Thank you
Merry Christmas everyone, give your loved ones a hug and tell them you love them
That’s lovely. More thoughts and prayers heading your way!
It's a lot of fun!
Thank you I do appreciate them
The snowglobe is beautiful and very precious I send hugs to you
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This is beautiful Mel ♥
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