I’ve been thinking usually I match my sims up with a sim I have groomed from birth for them. But this time around, I was hoping for my sim to choose her own mate. But she literally hasn’t even got into a flirty mood. She had a bunch of guy friends, but none have tried to flirt with her, and she hasn’t with them. Will all her relationships stay platonic unless I choose for it to change? Or will it happen eventually? I just wanted it to feel a little less, forced I guess. I thought maybe I could have her flirt with all the potential mates, but then that seemed like she would hurt a lot of friendships with jealousy and drama.
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If you get her and/or one of her friends to be Flirty and have them socialize, they might flirt and have a pink bar but then you would probably have to do it from there.
I really miss having an attraction system in this game. Half the time I match sims together only for one of them to decide that they like someone else...usually someone who is already married.
Also, I think I've had a sim roll the 'flirt with' whim before, but I can't remember if it was only with/for sims I've told them to flirt with before or were already in a couple with.
But no, I don't think your controlled sim will ever flirt with someone autonomously unless you've allowed that interaction before or they are near flirty items.
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But you could try taking your sim to the romance festival as sims tend to be flirty there if you have City Living EP.
I like both these ideas. I think if a certain sim starts showing up in the whims, I’ll take it as she’s interested. I forget about the whims a lot honestly. But it’s a good way to see what the sim wants, and seeing how that’s part of the game, it makes sense to try to incorporate that. Also, she had a guy invite her to a party, so I took that as “he asked her to come to the party with him, so that must mean he’s interested”. Which isn’t exactly how that works, but if that happened in real life, to a teenage girl, could be the conclusion she could jump to. 😏
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Personally I'd think if they make a friendship on their own they are more inclined to be compatible... but you might have to take it from there for the most part.
It might be good to make some clubs and see who your sim gets along with well. I wouldn't even put out romance stuff.. just see who they seem to make friends with on their own.
There is this guy sim that helped her with her science project, named Hawk... anyways, literally they talked and laughed and joked the entire time. (Not the same guy that invited her to a party) and I thought maybe he was the one, cause... she’s had project partners before, and they weren’t that chatty at all.
The only problem with that is there are three of them. Which one does she like?! Lol.
I like how I think I can make my story go with the suggestions.