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He doesn't have that because that's would be a BIG problem for Mom and I since we NEED Dad to drive us places since neither of us have Driver's licence (only Provincial ID). But I have a habit of having a big fit about everything no matter how small-since I don't know better. It doesn't help that half of the time I go to church (mostly block party which this year I missed) it's for food. Also he's has other stuff on his mind (ie my sister's car has engine problem) and other stuff-like garden maybe and currently taxes).
It sounds like your Dad has a lot of things on his mind and is undergoing stress. That can often cause people to repeat things that they have previously forgotten that they have already said, or to forget what they have already been told. He caringly loves you, and though he can do things that annoy you and cause you to feel upset, you and him share a special relationship that will weather what ever life holds for you , now and into the future, You are needing to live with your own health issues and their effect on your life. Sometimes what he does or says, is just that he cares about you, and wants the best for you. He also wants to show you that he is interested in what you are doing.
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I hope you don't mind me asking but...are you a Preacher? Or Preacher's wife? It doesn't matter either way, you just strike me as one with your care, wisdom and love.
God bless.
Hello @emorill
Thankyou very much for your very kind and lovely words !
Thankyou again so very much
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@Emorrill couldn't agree more. {{{{@Rosemow}}}
Hey everyone. Just back to this thread and catching up.
Because life is short, and sometimes they disappear.
Missing Benjamin.
Sending a hug to you
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I love this @mcrudd
CS Lewis wrote a lot about the Love and pain. His wife Joy died from cancer. Their love story is beautiful. They fell in love through letters, the early 20th Century version of the online relationship love stories. She was American and he of course British. When she died, he took care of her sons. I think there were two. I think about this a lot now, since my husband and I met the same way (online -- fell in love before meeting ftf). The story of Joy is one of my favorites.
"Pain," CS Lewis wrote, "is the price we pay for love. That's the deal."
Because life is short, and sometimes they disappear.
Missing Benjamin.
This hurts my heart so much. This kind of evil is beyond understanding. I'm so sorry for the pain this caused you. This happened to me too -- but the person saying it was drunk and probably misunderstood a conversation. So for an entire night I believed my son was somewhere safe and alive. I hope karma comforts you -- though it's bad karma to say that. So I'll just say I hope there is justice.
Edited to say: Still have a lot of anger from when it happened to me. Trying to forgive.
Because life is short, and sometimes they disappear.
Missing Benjamin.
Take care of yourself. Be really kind to yourself. What we've been going through for A year, a month and 22 days is enough to bring even the strongest person to their knees. Unless you live this day after day (and especially night after sleepless night) no one can really understand the shock this does to our systems. Rest. You need it.
Because life is short, and sometimes they disappear.
Missing Benjamin.
I probably won't send you an invite because I'm a terrible FB friend. I find FB very enervating and filled with negative energy. I recently heard this term "ghosted" on a TV show called Legends of Tomorrow and it is so perfect. I guess it's a lot more common than I realize. People stop talking to you, as if they have become ghosts. But you are still haunted.
I'll send you a PM here if that's okay with my email. That way we can chat here or through email. My heart is connected to yours. I'm here for you. I believe we were meant to meet -- there are just too many coincidences especially the date. Besides, I don't believe in coincidences. = )
Because life is short, and sometimes they disappear.
Missing Benjamin.
Because life is short, and sometimes they disappear.
Missing Benjamin.
When I was going through a tough time, I fell in love with quotes, like Cliffs Notes from every wise person who ever lived. I nearly died, got a second chance (2010) and decided to give back something to the world. So I started making graphics with great quotes.
This thread includes building/CAS/story challenges too if interested.
Rx-for-Healing / The Power of Color/Opposites
Because life is short, and sometimes they disappear.
Missing Benjamin.
Hello @Jazztizz
Life is very precious. Our loved ones are so special
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Life is precious @Rosemow - and I love how you say this especially:
If we ever decide to do a memorial thread, I'd like to use the title "Treasured Nook" because it's so perfect. As soon as our hearts are touched with love, a new nook opens up in our hearts, like a new light-filled room. It's like our hearts are bags of holding -- infinite capacity in a small space. I love this imagery. Thanks once again for your kindness.
Because life is short, and sometimes they disappear.
Missing Benjamin.
Hello @Kenjibaby
There is usually a blue new discussion button at the top right hand side of the screen in the forum sections. But new discussion threads have been restricted for new members. You are unable to start a new thread until you become a full member, even if previously you were able to start a new thread . This has been brought in as a result of spambots.
You need to have 50 points and 30 posts before you can become a full member and can then post pictures, have a signature, edit posts ,start new threads, post links and change your profile picture.This thread explains about it.
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2) I really, really hate Dad taking me to my Specialist doctor (Mom hasn't taken me for a VERY long time) since about two (is it three years?) ago he embarrassed me in front complaing about my sleeping habits (and also kind of complaing about Mom's sleeping habits as well). And LAST year he insisted I talk about my sleeping habits with the doctor..I just wish he would let sleeping dogs/dragons/centaurs/whatever alone.
1/2) I don't like Dad taking me to the doctor in (big city) is we only stay for the appointment then go home vs Mom if she could take me, we would spend the entire day in the city. (But then in the latter case there's no option unless we wanted to get an early train ie 3-4pm train home) I can't go into Toronto on my own (and even if I could..I literally have this habit of looking at my whichever parent ((once it was my 71/2 years older sister, but still)) is there for answers).
Hello @MadameLee
I will be thinking of you on May 10th when you have the Specialist Doctor appointment. I hope that it goes as smoothly as possible.
I am sorry that you have had not too good experiences with your Dad taking you to your Specialist. He loves you and cares about, and isn't intentionally trying to embarrass you. He just wants to help you with your health issues, and provide some feedback to the doctor. Things can change from one appointment to another, and this time may go better with how you go with your Dad accompanying you.
It would be good to talk over with the people that you work/volunteer with and work out the best option that will suit both you and the people that you work for, as to when you can alternatively do the work. They would be understanding of the situation that it is a medical reason that you are unable to come to work, and may allow you to perhaps miss coming in that week. Try seeing what results when you let your boss know about the Specialist appointment.
I send a hug
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Hello @Sandpitturtle
I am sorry that you feeling upset. What is the cause of your feeling distressed?
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It just I just hope this year he doesn't 1)talk about my sleeping habits or 2) forced me to talk about it. It's none of his business-and also HE shouldn't be talking since he goes to bed as late as I do!!
I just really, really, really, really, really, really, really wish MOM could do it instead for a change.. heck I wouldn't even mind my SISTER (if she was available which she isn't since unlike me she has an actual paying job) taking me just so I don't have to deal with Dad. Of course if Mom was taking me it means we would have to be up around 6am to I would assume use the train (instead of the bus since we don't have the 1 and 1/2hrs+ to travel by bus to ((university)) and then switch to the local transit to get to the LRT to get to the subway to get to ((station) ) to get to the hospital where my doctor sometimes works. Then we would need to do the blood work and then wait around for awhile (don't know if Mom would let us have lunch or not since normally Mom and I don't do lunch if we had a big breakfast and have snacks in my bag the only time we ever did lunch ((Post-stopping have lunches in city)) was when I was switching over to this doctor from my old hospital and that was quite an adventure) hopefully on May the 5th (PA day ) Mom and I get to do something in Toronto just to make me happy for the next week. Mom hasn't taken me since at least 2013/4.
I have severe depression and anxiety, I'm currently freaking out about my EA account as I've been trying to get help all day and I don't have much time left and don't know what to do. I really don't feel good right now.
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Hello @MadameLee
Perhaps you could talk it over with your mother, and see if she can attend the appointment with you. You have posted about a way to attend the appointment with her, so perhaps you could share this with her also. It will make you more at ease going with her, so although there is extra work to attend the appointment, it will help to ease how you are feeling about the situation. If you do need to go with your Dad, you could talk over with him beforehand the concerns that you have.Doing that may help the situation, and prevent your embarrassment or you feeling uncomfortable .
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Hello
I send big hugs to you
With your EA Account, try going onto live chat with EA Help. They will help you with your account issues
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Sending another hug to you
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