One is my sims is not able to propose to his girlfriend. There's a message that says something like it's inappropriate to marry this sim in your employ. Is it because he has commitment issues as one of his traits? His girlfriend lives with him and their 3 children they have together. They just can't get engaged or married.
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Other simmers are also having this issue.
It would be good to post feedback on this thread on the AHQ EA site that refers to the issue
http://answers.ea.com/t5/The-Sims-4-Bug-Reports/OPEN-Sims-cannot-marry-because-Sim-supposingly-employed-when-not/m-p/5733980#U5733980
http://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/817478/hello-come-and-introduce-yourself
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Hello
Do you get a message that you can't propose/marry another sim because they are your employee ?
If you don't,and if you have cc/mods in your game, move your mods folder to the desktop. Then start the game and test to see if the issue is still there.
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Simmers have been posting that their sims who promised to each other when a teen are unable to propose.
It would be good to post on the AHQ EA thread in the earlier post. There are simmers who posted there whose sims had been promised to each other when teens and they didn't have the propose option.
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Playing Mod & CC Free
It is great that your couple are now able to propose
http://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/817478/hello-come-and-introduce-yourself
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http://tinyurl.com/rosemow
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I posted about my sims not getting married because of "being employed" by the other. That sim had initiated an "Exchange Promise Rings" action. It kept him from ever proposing to any other sim. I think this may have been triggered by the recent patch for some reason, but I think this is the problem.
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Thankyou for posting the feedback about your sims.
http://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/817478/hello-come-and-introduce-yourself
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http://tinyurl.com/rosemow
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If you're using MCCC or UI Mod, they both need to be updated since the recent patch. I downloaded and installed the new versions of the mods and the employ conflict was gone. Give it a shot if you're using either of those two!
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It is good to know that updating those mods to the latest versions helped to fix the issue in your game .
http://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/817478/hello-come-and-introduce-yourself
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I'm not sure what these Mods are? I have the different Packs? Where do you go to find the downloads?
I'm having all sorts of issues since the most recent patch, game is glitchy, various freezing on events, aspirations.
Thank you!
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Repairing the game may help with your issues. To do that, right click on the sims 4 picture in Origin and click repair.
Try resetting your sims 4 folder and see if that helps. To do that, move your sims 4 folder ( that is in Documents -Electronic Arts - then the sims 4 folder is there ) to the desktop. Then start the game, and a new sims 4 folder will be generated. Exit the game and then copy back the "options.ini" or " options " file and the "saves" , "screenshots" "tray" "custom music " and "mods" folders from the desktop sims 4 folder to the new sims 4 folder, replacing the new generated file/ folders with the old file/folders from the desktop sims 4 folder .
Sometimes having a large amount of items in the sims inventories and household inventory can cause issues. Try removing some of the items from the inventories and see if that helps.
Try also checking the inventories of other sims households in the game. Simmmers have been finding that the game has been placing items into their inventories when they are not playing the households.
http://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/817478/hello-come-and-introduce-yourself
http://tinyurl.com/OneRoomOneWeek
http://tinyurl.com/rosemow
My Showcase thread https://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/948861/rosemow-s-rooms-showcase
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I am sorry that you are having this issue. If either of them have other boyfriends /girlfriends try having them break up the relationships
Try lowering the relationship levels of your two legacy sims or have them break up. Then build up their relationship again and see if that helps.
http://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/817478/hello-come-and-introduce-yourself
http://tinyurl.com/OneRoomOneWeek
http://tinyurl.com/rosemow
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I am sorry that you had this issue in your game also, and that you needed to use the cheat to go into cas and change their relationship. I am sorry that you missed their wedding as a result of the issue
http://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/817478/hello-come-and-introduce-yourself
http://tinyurl.com/OneRoomOneWeek
http://tinyurl.com/rosemow
My Showcase thread https://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/948861/rosemow-s-rooms-showcase
There is a known bug with teens not being able to propose because they were promised earlier.
My post was a little unclear. I mean once the teens age up to YA they can't propose if they were promised earlier.
The issue with the game treating your sim as being an employee is in this thread on the AHQ EA site. It would be good to post feedback or press " me too " on that thread.
http://answers.ea.com/t5/The-Sims-4-Bug-Reports/OPEN-Sims-cannot-propose/m-p/5733980#M30911
http://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/817478/hello-come-and-introduce-yourself
http://tinyurl.com/OneRoomOneWeek
http://tinyurl.com/rosemow
My Showcase thread https://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/948861/rosemow-s-rooms-showcase
Is the issue affecting other sims in your game, as well as the ones you needed to take into cas as a workaround to change their relationship?
http://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/817478/hello-come-and-introduce-yourself
http://tinyurl.com/OneRoomOneWeek
http://tinyurl.com/rosemow
My Showcase thread https://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/948861/rosemow-s-rooms-showcase